The Healing Celebration Workshop

Time to celebrate yourself in letting go of hurt, pain, suffering, bitterness, fear, guilt, shame and whatever else is holding you back from creating and living the life you want.

Join me in this in depth life celebration workshop of healing, closure, forgiveness, love, acceptance and courage of who you are becoming!

You were created an accomplishment and greatness awaits you!! Are you ready to grab hold of your destiny, dreams and true self? Then get ready for an experience like no other as I assist you in practicing change, growth and pure realness within yourself!

Don’t be afraid to invest in YOU!! You are the most important investment and no longer just an option but PRIORITY!! We will dig deep within to find the root of what is holding you back!


If anyone is interested in promoting their business as well as adding products to The Healing Gift Bags for The Healing Project Workshop, please email me at for further information! will be more than happy to promote your business for the event as well as on my site.

Flower Infused Bath


Are you a struggling Artist who dreams of purchasing frequent spa treatments but realize that when spending approximately $150 per service, it breaks your pockets? Especially if you want to experience those services at least once a week or once a month, as oppose to being treated once a year? Well, here’s an idea!

We know how expensive investing into professional head shots, wardrobe, and websites can be, especially when most performance bookings are unpaid gigs that promise great exposure and serve as just another resume booster. But fear not; you can still afford the good life! Here’s how: Buy YOURSELF a bouquet of flowers for approximately $20 and just throw them into your own bath tub. (For extra pampering, spill some essential oil into the tub as well) It cuts cost dramatically, plus you don’t have to rush because there’s no appointment! You take the flower infused bath whenever you want to, for as long as you want to, in the comfort of your own home. Here’s how you’ll benefit:

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The Word H.E.A.L.I.N.G

H means Health – which is the source of how you are creating the life you are choosing to live

E means Energy – which is the source of what you are putting into the universe and the attitude you are displaying within yourself and towards others that can be positive or negative

A means Acceptance/Approval – which is the source of your thoughts, words and actions in how you are choosing to allow yourself, as well others make you feel about your life

L means Love – which is the source of your emotions whether you are choosing to be peaceful and happy with closure or miserable and broken, and not ready to heal

I means Intuition – which is the source for the decisions, avoidance, mistakes and regrets you will experience be it good or bad, but knowing that it is never too late for new beginnings

N means New – which is the source for starting over, beginnings, opportunities, potential, leaps of faith, capabilities and confidence within yourself

G means Gratitude – which is the source of why you wake up in the morning with purpose and ambition to want to achieve more tomorrow than you did today and doing your best to take yourself to the next level because you know life is too short and time is of the essence

Dhylles “The Coaching Cupid” Davis
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”


“I coach individuals to independently practice healing, closure, forgiveness, self-love and acceptance in order to fall in love with their lives again.

Contact Dhylles for bookings, appearances, free consultation and subscription for daily affirmations!

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The Healing Journey

“I remember having a victim mentality where I felt like I did not deserve anything good in life due to all of the abuse I endured. I kept waiting for something bad to happen when something good took place and was always in disappointment mode when the bad overcame the good. I did not realize that I was putting all of this negative energy into the universe, and that it was my negative spirit that made those I cared for distance themselves from me because I was putting a damper on their day by the way I was living, thinking and speaking. I would sound like a broken record with repetitive crap coming out of my mouth because it was an addiction of being bitter and angry with the life I did not realize I was creating. It wasn’t until the love of my life explained to me in the most loving way of how negative I was becoming and how I was allowing life to pass me by with no sense of purpose, peace or happiness. Finally, I had decided that I had to make change happen within myself and that no one can do it for me. I chose to go through my process of healing, acceptance, self forgiveness for how I had affected others by my own hurt and pain, as well learning to embrace my faults, flaws and imperfections in order for the true Dhylles to come out and introduce herself to the world. It is amazing when one changes their frame of thinking how such a shift can take place within. But you have to be ready and willing with an open mind, heart and spirit. I was willing because I no longer wanted to live this way with such a pure numbness inside that it had prevented me from feeling love and compassion for myself. I love myself so much more than I ever did before, and I am still a work in process, but I can honestly say that I absolutely love my life and what I am creating for my future.”

“The Coaching Cupid”
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”
Inspirational Writer for Inner Vibrations Magazine

The Healing Journey by The Coaching Cupid

The Healing Journey


“I would put on my make up and do my hair while looking in the mirror and saw nothing and felt nothing. I would get dressed and hit the streets like it had my name written all over it. I was scared to be home alone with my thoughts, especially since I chose to inflict wounds of pain and suffering upon myself every time I stepped out and connected with someone who I knew was wrong for me. It was a drug I craved where getting that attention I could not give myself was concerned. It took me to hit rock bottom and feeling like I was drowning and going crazy with the thoughts of taking my own life. Every form of liquid around me was for the taking into my mind, body, and soul because my heart no longer wanted to feel pain and heartache. Fortunately for me, I knew how to use my voice and ask for the help I so desperately needed and the most high heard my cries. I realized I did value my life is some small way and I owed it to myself to improve the quality of which I was living, and had to stop being fearful in order to face myself. It was was a long aggravating process but I knew I could no longer give up on me because I was put here for a purpose that was deeper than my own understanding. I chose to slowly transform my thinking, actions and how I spoke to myself and about myself. I chose to speak life and live life in order for the universe to respond back to me in a powerful and encouraging way, and I am walking towards a brighter future with peace, happiness and freedom!

Dhylles “The Coaching Cupid” Davis
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”
“I help transform individuals from being victims into becoming victors in order to fall in love with their lives again!”
Inspirational Writer for Inner Vibrations Magazine:
Contact Dhylles for bookings, free consultation and subscription for daily affirmations!

Time to invest in YOU!

Ladies please mark your calendar for Feb. 21st 2015 for the next Sip and Chat suddenly approaching in the new year! Are you looking to find healing, peace, joy and happiness within?

inner+peaceDo you need assistance in building self-confidence, self-acceptance and self-love?

Do you need assistance in rebuilding your faith?

Do you need assistance finding your voice?

Are you ready for new beginnings but not sure how to start?

Studios 150
150 West 46th Street
Studio 7.5
Btwn 6th and 7th Avenues

Beverages & light snacks as well as feel good bags will be included in ticket price.

The Healing Affirmation

Affirmation of the Day: Are you living your full life’s potential today? Are you doing everything in your power to find peace and happiness or are you still running from yourself? Time is flying by so quickly that when you choose to make change happen it may be too late. Change is definitely scary but you will never know what it is like to be at peace and in full happiness if you don’t even try to take that leap of faith. Today is the right time to make change happen. Why wait for tomorrow or the next day to do and live your best? Every second in your life counts! Time is a very important investment to make within yourself more than materialistic things or in what others are doing. How are you investing your time?

Dhylles “The Coaching Cupid” Davis
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”

“I help transform individuals from being victims into becoming victors in order to fall in love with their lives again!”

Contact Dhylles for bookings, free consultation and subscription for daily affirmations!

The Healing Journey

The Healing Journey

Self-Love“Bending over backwards and going above and beyond for others used to be a part of my DNA. I would drop everything I was doing for myself and neglected me to make sure others were taken care of first. I was such the people pleaser who never said no because I wanted everyone (to not only like me) but also love me. I did not care if I did without, in order for others to have. My boiling point came when I started realizing that the feeling and actions were not being reciprocated, and like no one was going the extra mile for me. I had no one else to blame but myself because I chose this, and was angry with myself for being so loving and caring. I realized I needed balance on being selfish and selfless without hurting myself in the process, and I no longer became a security blanket for others and no longer was concerned with who liked or loved me anymore, especially when I was no longer of use to them.”

Growth is still in process but I definitely know my worth and what to accept and allow and what not to tolerate. I am priority no matter what. The word “NO” is definitely part of my vocabulary!

Dhylles “The Coaching Cupid” Davis
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”

“I help transform individuals from being victims into becoming victors in order to fall in love with their lives again!”

Contact Dhylles for bookings, free consultation and subscription for daily affirmations!

Are you ready to heal, forgive and get closure in order to love again?

Choiselle Organic Skincare



Mysterious stories from how the witch doctor cured someone from repetitive voodoo nightmares, to how the modern day medicine man fell in love with an exotic island native, have spilled from people’s mouths throughout the ages about the Caribbean. But one thing that is refreshingly new, is the body skincare brand, CHOISELLE, created by – yes – another exotic island native named Nydia Norville, who created this line due to her earlier childhood years spent with her grandmother as she picked from the plants, trees and herbs growing around them.


It’s no secret that one of the best beauty remedies is to take a dip and swim inside of a tropical based ocean where the salt water detoxifies your skin in conjunction with the sun that recharges cell rejuvenation. But the truth of the matter is that most of us live in urban cities where we work hard, juggle full time careers, and are exposed to way too much pollution and toxic chemicals on a daily basis. In short, we have to invest in the maintenance of our beauty to keep ourselves looking healthy and radiant before our environment ages us quicker. Norville knows this all too well as she started her career as a print model before creating her luxurious skincare products. Below is a Q&A with the fabulous Beauty Expert, revealing why her products are a must-have for every woman’s regimen.


The inspiration behind my line came from my early childhood spent on the Caribbean island of St. Lucia. I drew from my experience watching my grandmother and other women around me prepare medicinal and skincare remedies using ingredients from plants, trees and herbs growing around them. Choiselle (pronounced SHWA-ZELLE) is loosely named after the town in St. Lucia called Choiseul (pronounced SHOW-ZELLE). I changed the pronunciation and spelling just a bit. It was my way of paying tribute to the place that inspired me.


I wanted to use ingredients from nature in their purest form as possible. I first started looking at ingredients native to the Caribbean and from there branched out into different regions. The initial inspiration comes from the Caribbean. We have mango butter and lemongrass. Citronella which is lemongrass’s “cousin” is what I remember seeing being used to make tea.  They smell very similar and even look almost the same. We also incorporated ingredients from other regions such as lavender from France and ylang ylang which is native to Southeast Asia.


Our products are currently being sold on our online store and we have selected products at Aetheria Relaxation Spa in New Canaan, CT.  We will be announcing very soon that our products will be available in the spa of a luxury hotel in the Caribbean but we can’t mention the name yet. Stay tuned.

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Inner Peace – White Sage



To Purify The Mind, Body & Home

Like most things in life, we usually try out a new thing due to word of mouth. For me, it was burning white sage – the real kind. Lighting incense and candles to create a peaceful vibe in my home was all too familiar and routine. I even lit up essential oils to exude a powerful fragrance which calmed my nerves as I inhaled cinnamon, jasmine, peppermint and vanilla, just to name a few. But eventually, in the midst of casual conversations amongst friends, I was told by many, that I had to burn white sage. 

Before purchasing yet another item from the calming oasis of aromatherapy, I decided to do my research on good-old Google to get the facts behind this popular product. To my surprise, its golden reputation became more than just a must-have for the house, but it opened up doors down a curious pathway to ancient folklore legends.

Burning authentic white sage to purify the atmosphere has been practiced in all 4 corners of the world dating back to the Native American Indians. In addition, it’s also used in temples, masques and churches where various religious sectors pray and/or meditate. When people of various ethnic backgrounds and different walks of life agree on using the same item for the same purpose, you have to admit, there must be some proof as to how magical this stuff really is. History has it that white sage was also used as an herbal medicine to heal the sick by witch doctors before hospitals existed. And till this day, white sage is sold world wide for people to purify their homes, offices, and/or to cleanse themselves from any negative energies they might’ve absorbed from previous encounters.

White sage is a mood lifter, a purification, a form of protection, and an herbal medicine. For this reason, if you’re anything like me – someone who’s home or creative space is adorned with tea lights, essential oils, incense and fragrance sprays – then you may be ready to take it up a notch and use the one item (white sage) that will raise your frequency as you place your hands above the thick patch of smoke and allow it to cleanse you. I’m speaking from experience… On a day that I received some bad news and felt a headache forming from anger and disappointment, I burned my white sage and couldn’t believe how heavenly it worked. This stuff really works.