The Healing Journey

“I remember having a victim mentality where I felt like I did not deserve anything good in life due to all of the abuse I endured. I kept waiting for something bad to happen when something good took place and was always in disappointment mode when the bad overcame the good. I did not realize that I was putting all of this negative energy into the universe, and that it was my negative spirit that made those I cared for distance themselves from me because I was putting a damper on their day by the way I was living, thinking and speaking. I would sound like a broken record with repetitive crap coming out of my mouth because it was an addiction of being bitter and angry with the life I did not realize I was creating. It wasn’t until the love of my life explained to me in the most loving way of how negative I was becoming and how I was allowing life to pass me by with no sense of purpose, peace or happiness. Finally, I had decided that I had to make change happen within myself and that no one can do it for me. I chose to go through my process of healing, acceptance, self forgiveness for how I had affected others by my own hurt and pain, as well learning to embrace my faults, flaws and imperfections in order for the true Dhylles to come out and introduce herself to the world. It is amazing when one changes their frame of thinking how such a shift can take place within. But you have to be ready and willing with an open mind, heart and spirit. I was willing because I no longer wanted to live this way with such a pure numbness inside that it had prevented me from feeling love and compassion for myself. I love myself so much more than I ever did before, and I am still a work in process, but I can honestly say that I absolutely love my life and what I am creating for my future.”

“The Coaching Cupid”
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”
Inspirational Writer for Inner Vibrations Magazine

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