The Healing Journey
“Bending over backwards and going above and beyond for others used to be a part of my DNA. I would drop everything I was doing for myself and neglected me to make sure others were taken care of first. I was such the people pleaser who never said no because I wanted everyone (to not only like me) but also love me. I did not care if I did without, in order for others to have. My boiling point came when I started realizing that the feeling and actions were not being reciprocated, and like no one was going the extra mile for me. I had no one else to blame but myself because I chose this, and was angry with myself for being so loving and caring. I realized I needed balance on being selfish and selfless without hurting myself in the process, and I no longer became a security blanket for others and no longer was concerned with who liked or loved me anymore, especially when I was no longer of use to them.”
Growth is still in process but I definitely know my worth and what to accept and allow and what not to tolerate. I am priority no matter what. The word “NO” is definitely part of my vocabulary!
Dhylles “The Coaching Cupid” Davis
Transformational Life Coach/Motivational Speaker/
Author of “Your Life Your Purpose No Explanations!”
“I help transform individuals from being victims into becoming victors in order to fall in love with their lives again!”
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